14 yr old dating 19 yr old
(Before you ask, I'm not worried about the legal stuff because the age of consent where I live is 16.Not interested in things getting sexual anyway.)First off, we're a little over 3 years apart.I mean I had friends that were in highschool, he was a senior and he dated a freshmen and they ended up dating for 4 years before getting married so the circumstances wasn't weird for at all. Actually we started dating when i was 17 and she was 14-15 and then i was 18 when she was 15.
Thanks for reading and hopefully providing some feedback.
We shared so much in common, and she both looked older, and was far more mature than most people I can remember being when I was that age ( I actually thought she was around her early 20's when I met her) that when we went out for dinner, or on a date, no one gave us weird looks.
The hardest part about dating someone that is in a different point in their life (You in College, her still in high school) is that her parents are going to see you as a total scum bag, that probably only wants in her pants.
Frankly I don't understand the idea of dating someone that you're not interested in sexually, but hey, it's your life, and that does make things easier.
You need to really, really make an effort to get her family to accept you, and grow to like, and eventually love you.