Before too long you'll develop the skill and confidence to dance in a bar or grange or wherever. I am right-wing, Republican, religious , 30 something and find Boise the toughest place I have been, except Hood River, to find a date with a woman who isn't a single-mother and lots of baggage.Your confidence will go up, your physical conditioning will improve, etc. It seems in Boise most people marry out of high school and divorce in their 40s.You will have to frequent churches, groups and it could take years before you are accepted into the groups, where the "good" girls associate.
There is a scene outside of the 6th and Main area, there are several pockets around downtown.Dating is hard, and it sucks pretty much everywhere, once you are past about 25.College/grad school makes it easy: you meet people and just start hanging out, and the transition from friends to more feels seamless.Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick!Some forums can only be seen by registered members.
I was the only person in my 30s there and I am only 33.