Cyber dating initiated
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Prior to the late early 1900s, courtship was a much more private, unemotional affair.
Women would meet with several men, with her parents present, to whittle the pickings down to the most suitable match for marriage, which heavily relied on factors such as financial and social status.
When a young woman decided on a man she wanted to see exclusively, their activities as a couple took place either in the household, or at social gatherings.
As the years rolled on into the 1920s, however, this system quickly became outdated and unfavorable. Bailey writes in her book , "Dating had almost completely replaced the old system of calling by the mid-1920s — and, in so doing, had transformed American courtship." This was a period of time when couples started going out on dates, which also meant they started paying for dates.
This changed the relationship dynamic between a young man and a young woman, as now it was the man's duty to pay for the date, whereas before it was the woman who decided the terms of the visit.
In the 1950s, "going steady" was the term for being in an exclusive relationship.