Dating mother 2
Sometimes I feel pangs of jealousy when I see conventional families with a mother and a father. I want to be with someone who makes me feel alive and makes my time worthwhile. It means that we have to make our time together a priority. I do not have the luxury of dropping what I’m doing and heading out.It must be nice to share these experiences with the one other person who contributed in making your child. Even if I have a village of wonderful people to help me, I am the only person that can be the I invest everything in my child and, at the end of the day, I’ve run out of gas. I have to get a babysitter and schedule how long I can be out and when I need to return. But do you know how happy I am when I get that alone time with you? To me, it’s like a romantic getaway, a mini-vacation.Whether or not you planned to be a father, there may also be a kid who falls in love with you, too. All Premium Members get to view The Good Men Project with NO ADS.Her Ex had an affair and the 13yo found the evidence and brought it to mom.
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When I’m upset with you, my kid can feel it in my energy. I have to constantly remind myself that you do not share my responsibilities nor my past experiences.
I understand this is a difficult concept to remember, but it’s the truth. When I’m so consumed in my own responsibilities, I get frustrated when you don’t understand my anguish.
At the same time, I’m taking on the responsibility, that naturally, two people should share. Time with you = Time away from my kid which means you better make sure it is worth it.
I put in everything I’ve got- physically and emotionally- so he never has to feel like he’s missing a parent. If I am going to be with you, I want you to fuel me in some way. It’s not that I can’t be strong on my own, but everyone deserves fulfilling companionship. That doesn’t mean we have to have candlelit dinners or climb a mountain every time we’re together.
Our benchmarks as a couple are totally different, the obvious being your relationship with my child. If anything, I am more vulnerable because I am more serious about my time and my relationships.