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However, he was so persistent and romantic that I finally gave in and started to have what I thought was a relationship with him. I had just broken up with my ex-boyfriend, so I was a bit reluctant to take the new guy seriously.Yet, no matter how many times he repeated those words, I couldn’t believe them once. To ask me to stay in his life, so he could “have his cake and eat it too” was the final confirmation that he was 110% team him.This article is a nod to the leech I let suck my emotions dry, and a warning for anyone dating someone who exhibits these selfish ways.A week or two later he started to act really cold, not texting or phoning me unless I did it first.He would only see me once a week because he said he was busy (which he was).I felt horrible because I had fallen for him and he didn’t care much about us (in fact he did state that we were incompatible and that he couldn’t imagine a future with me).
They don’t want to inconvenience themselves for someone else. If you tell your partner something makes you upset, he should make an effort to fix the problem so you won’t get hurt again.I’m not going to try to play shrink to figure out how low your self-esteem has to get for you want to win back a psychotic, selfish, abusive commitmentphobe, but let’s say that what happened to you should have driven you far, far away from this guy. In the end, this dude kept telling me how he cares about me. The only person a selfish person can ever truly care about is himself.And when you ask for the bare minimum in return, it will be all too much for them to handle because considering anyone else’s feelings is just NOT in their nature.They’re “too busy” or “tired,” or didn’t have their phone on them, aka they don’t care to take two seconds to respond to you because doing so does not serve them.
They will continue to take everything they can from you, whether that be consoling, attention, sex — anything and everything until you’re gived out.