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Sounds to me, Pat, like you’re a decent man who might not even be fully aware of what your needs are. I’ve had terrible experiences dating a separated man who wasn’t ready to date — but it wasn’t his fault (entirely).I was the one who ignored all the obvious signs he wasn’t ready.However, I have to point out to women reading this and nodding that in ANY relationship, you CAN’T know after date 1, month 1 or month 3 that you’re destined to spend forever together. However, if you discover through the process of dating, that in fact, you’re just looking to have fun for a little while, make sure you don’t allow any woman to invest too deeply in you.That’s the risky part of making yourself vulnerable, even though you know, full well, that 99% of relationships that get started don’t end up at the altar. Or go out of your way to find a woman who is recently separated or divorced, just like you. Just be totally upfront about where you are emotionally, and let her decide.Regardless of which site (or sites) you’re on, you deal with the same types of issues. So what is appropriate and what isn’t when you’re first chatting online?
Hell, you’re even a risk if you’re just out of a divorce and want to “play the field”.you just add them without having to give your number and can chat.Also, with most of the online dating sites having apps, just chatting on the apps works great too. We went to counseling for many months prior to the separation and it didn’t work.I agreed to 3 years legal separation, so that she could get my health insurance, and then the divorce would be decreed.
If you really are as over your ex as you say, then the way you discuss her and your marriage will indicate that.