Im dating my ex
He has said he is unsure why we have broken up but does list the fact that he thinks he's more positive than I, which is a bit true when it comes to little things- but not true when it comes to the big picture.
He's actually clinically depressed so for him to say that is a little bit patronizing although I guess he is allowed to think what he wants- I just want to get back together- even after all this. I have said - I hope she is nice and you are happy but Qit would have been nice for you to tell me the truth- there was no need to lie. If we were broken up (which we were) I dont understand.
I am okay with him seeing someone, but me dating and add his already intense jealousy, he's all messed up.
I cut off all contact with him and eventually told him I knew about this girl.
It's a fine line betweem being too far gone and healed to the point that you no longer want them and between being so messed up you haven't healed and still hold resentment and so on.
That fine line is kind of also a big part why reconciliation is hard and sometimes just never works.
try and stay strong ok and keep busy in the mean time but whatever you do leave your ex to live his life now, let him miss you and see what life is like without you.
and if this helps you at all my ex never tried to string me along to spare my feelings he did this cause he wanted to keep me on one side incase him and this girl fell through, so in the end I had no choice but to cut off all contact with him, put him in a situation where he had to be with this girl and do a lot of research online and read up on what has happened when other people have been faced with there exs doing the whole grass is greener, rebounds thing honestly though I have slowly got through things with my ex feel better than ever now but you have just gotta play the game with your ex correctly now and move on with your life, If you decide to stay in contact then it will only make his relationship with other females stronger and he will get over you that much quicker that is why as hard as it might be cut off all contact, stop asking him questions as well cause a lot of what he tells you might just be alll lies now best of luck I have a different perspective. Anyway, after a break-up, most people start dating someone else sooner or later.
I had the odd case where my ex saw someone very briefly, came back to me, but then I saw someone, then later came back to him.