The switch from dating to relationship
If this is an adult that is unaware when they are being abusive to you, then you do not want to be with them.If this adult is incapable of understanding how adult relationships work, then you will never have a fulfilling relationship with them.
Your partner pretended that a certain kind of relationship was available to you.
When I met my boyfriend, I knew he was what I had been searching for.
He was open, loving, honest, kind, caring, and funny, and his spirit just sparkled through his eyes. I knew from all I had learned about relationships that they bring up emotional stuff, enabling us to heal wounds we may not have identified if someone else hadn’t triggered them.
If you see an advertisement for a certain product at a price that you find fair, and then the sales person tries to get you to buy a different product (usually more expensive) , telling you that the original product is no longer available, then this might be a bait and switch.
If they advertised the original product with no intention of giving you that product.